I’ve been drinking a lot more water which is good, but now the bathroom has been my second new home.
I have been feeling more nauseous lately. The first time it happened was when Ivan was driving after a big meal. Hoping that I don’t get sick more often with Ivan’s driving. I know at one point I won’t be able to drive myself around.
My family is all so very excited. My brother, sister-in-law, sister and brother-in-law have been talking about stories of their kids and giving advice.
My brother Arsenio talked about poo blowouts when you don’t put the diaper on right and the poo goes everywhere. My brother-in-law had sympathy pains where he vomited. My sister-in-law Kara said she’d bake me her tasty chocolate chip cookies anytime I wanted which sounds good to me. My sister Maricar recommended carrying a cup with me at all times in case you have to puke. Once, she puked into her shirt pocket. She also thought it’s good to have crackers with me.
My siblings were talking about the baby seat. Since the baby seat faces backwards when they’re young, one of the parents would always sit with the baby. My brother-in-law Art felt like he was a chauffeur.
We got four books from Amazon yesterday including one for Ivan called The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be by Armin A. Brott and Jennifer Ash. I hope these books will help out since we’re both pretty clueless as what to expect.
Yesterday, Ivan and I met with Shannondoah who’s a doula. Ivan met her during hypnosis class a few years ago. She’s very sweet. She recommended eating peppermint or smelling peppermint oil in a candle (put the oil in the base of the candle wick) for nausea. She also does hynomassages and teaches hypnobirthing. I am definitely interested in hypnobirthing since I’m very easy to hypnotize. I can even hypnotize myself. Plus, Ivan is a hypnotist so I’m sure that will be helpful. She wasn’t as professional since she didn’t have paperwork with her prices.
Shannondoah also recommended taking a prenatal pill with DHA and folic acid. My prenatal pill doesn’t seem to have folic acid, so we bought some today. Shannondoah did say I should eat saltine crackers and she lived off them when she was pregnant since they soothe your stomach. She also thought sea bands were good for nausea, too.
Shanndondoah also talked about Placenta Encapsulation. This is where the placenta is dehydrated and then ground up and placed in a pill. If the new mummy feels depressed, she would pop one of the pills. It’s supposed to have many health benefits. UNLV is doing a study in Las Vegas to find out if it actually does work. The study will pay you $80 that would go toward the placenta encapsulation service and then you would be given a pill which could be a placebo or not.
I will be looking more into this. It just sounds a bit crazy to me. Ivan thinks that it sounds cool and probably wouldn’t do any harm.
I did tell my parents about having a home birth. As I knew, they weren’t too keen on the idea. They think my first baby should be born in a hospital. I know whatever I do they will support my decision. I asked my mum if she wanted to be at the birth and she said No, because she doesn’t want to hear me scream.
Today, Ivan and I went to see the midwife Sherry Hopkins at Well Rounded Momma. Well Rounded Momma provides pregnancy, birth and postpartum support in the Las Vegas area. They provide various workshops, classes and seminars that support holistic pregnancy, birthing, breastfeeding and parenting.
Currently, it’s located in a home. Sherry was really nice and professional. She told us about that Blue Cross Blue Shield covers her services and informed us that she refers mums to an outside place for ultrasounds. She gave us paperwork that showed us what she does and the price.
Well Rounded Momma is moving in a month to a storefront. Hopefully, the new place will have the great homey feel that they have right now.
Ivan thought we should look into consulting with more doulas. I went in search of more and found a great resource called Doula Match. You put in your zip code and it searches for doulas in your town or city. They were only a handful listed there, but I liked that it had Testimonials. I found a doula who had lots of good testimonials and she’s also does hynobirthing and is a HCHD (Hypnobabies Certified Hypnosis Doula). So, I filled out a form on her site and hope to set up a consultation with her tomorrow.
Ivan is always great at finding things that are good for me during my pregnancy. He found tea that helps with minor upset stomachs called Yogi Tea Mother To Be Organic Tea.
I tried it today and it tastes good. Ivan was feeling tired and his stomach hurt – maybe he’s having sympathy pains. He felt good after some food and the tea.
My dad said I need to start eating meat since I’m pregnant. Everybody thinks that meat = protein. I think that’s silly. I am pescetarian most of the year. Sometimes I do have cravings for meat, but for health reasons I try not to eat it. Ivan has me eating a handful of almonds a day and making sure I eat foods high in protein like dried figs and boiled eggs.
Ivan and I will be meeting up with another midwife Kathya tomorrow.